There is a look of absolute horror that comes across a woman’s face when she's become the very thing 15 seconds ago she vowed to hate... Much more important to me is overall attraction, chemistry,confidence, etc.Then of course I threaten to leave her and her hairy ass...gross girl with a hairy bum..what’s wrong with you! I would say that hairy backs are generally not attractive to me, but if I was into a guy that happened to have a hairy back it wouldn't change anything for me...What I mean is, things I would normally classify as un-attractive don't bother me much or at all if I'm with someone I really am in to.But, as a courtesy to the ladies, if I think I'm getting some action later, I'll go over the shoulders and back with a razor (places I'm not that hairy) but the chest would be too costly and painful to keep "smooth" so that's out. I actually like hairy legs, but it wouldn't really bother me ( I don't think..never had a guy shave his legs ,lol) if he shaved his legs.Guys like me have old school James Bond to thank (Sean Connery, thanks for not shaving that chest back in the day, brother! I keep myself clean shaven except when I'm not involved with someone I do slack off some since no one is going to see or know I may go a week without shaving down there. Hairy backs are definitely not a YAY but not a nay either. I'd wonder why the hell he'd want to do something like that when he doesn't have t o =) I'm paying good money to laser so I can avoid the hassles of shaving. I think a hairy chest can be very sexy..so much on the back.) for girls liking hairy guys haha I always love it when I find ass hair on girls, and then I will give them a set up question about guys being hairy and “aint it gross”..always agree they could never date a guy who had a hairy back...hand to god..ALWAYS say...”I couldn't date a guy with hairy ass either”...it's about that time I pluck a hair... Mother Nature’s a comedian without a licence I like guys with hairy legs but hairy back is not a turn on to me. We are made the way we are made and that's fine as long as he's not one of those guys that would insist on a brazilian! But WHY shave your legs unless you are an avid cyclist or swimmer? But, I will say that this would not be a deciding factor for me with a guy nor would I bug someone I care about to shave/wax their backs.With that being said, please do not shave anything that is going to leave a prickly mess! ^^^^^No offence gemcutie....wonder why guys get confused.
With that being said, please do not shave anything that is going to leave a prickly mess! I would say that hairy backs are generally not attractive to me, but if I was into a guy that happened to have a hairy back it wouldn't change anything for me...
So, do women generally ask a guy if he has a hairy back on the first date or wait until further down the track when they become intimate or when the shirt comes off.....you just dump the guy?
I wonder how many women would be pleased if their boyfriend demanded they shave their pubic area or they will break up with them.
The responses here are entertaining to read, diverse in terms of preferences, and very englightening.
As a (ahem) hairy, or furry man myself, I take no offense.So, how do you know a guy has a hairy back to begin with..... So, after a lot of dates and the chemistry is there and your very attracted to him.